Everyone knows women find it harder to orgasm than men do. Here's a rundown of the reasons why, and how to increase your chances of enjoying hassle-free sex like he does
You just don't feel like it
Pinpoint exactly what's happening
Temporary lack of desire means you normally love sex but are just going through an 'off period'. Long-term lack of desire means passion hasn't lived at your house for quite some time. Low sensation means you want sex but your body doesn't, refusing to respond physically to erotic arousal of the brain. Your genitals remain dry and you've got a low sensitivity to touch and sensation on your clitoris and vaginal area.
If you're suffering from low sensation, head for your doctor and ask for a referral to a good gynecologist for a full check-up. The problem is usually physically based with common culprits being pelvic surgery like hysterectomy, high blood pressure , smoking, high cholesterol, hormonal changes like having a baby and medications.
Temporary lack of desire can usually be pinpointed to a specific event if you think hard enough. Apart from the obvious things like having a baby, there's stress (new job , new house), exhaustion, the death of a loved one, tension in your relationship and any one of a number of things which make you feel less than wonderful. If you can identify a specific event, the solution usually presents itself along with the realisation. If you're really stressed rethink your priorities and if you're grieving, give yourself time to heal.
