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Pakistan Army Vs Indian Army

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Facebook Vs Google +

Facebook is still dominating the social media market, but with the increased popularity of Google+, the battle for social media supremacy is heating up. Some people say Google+ has it all; that it is the perfect mix between Facebook and Twitter. Readmore...

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Thursday, June 2, 2011

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Tuesday, May 31, 2011

How to be Attractive to Girls

Steps and tips to follow To Attract Girls
How to be Attractive to Girls


Want to be that cool guy who gets all the girls? Not because he is smart or has a good personality. Well, this will teach you how to be attractive to girls on the out and inside.

Steps


Outside

  1. Do Exercises Many people think that you have to lift weights to get fit. That actually isn't the case. First, push-ups work your chest and triceps massively! Crunches work your abs. You put your calf/feet on the seat of a chair, with your back on the ground. You should be looking at the ceiling. Put your hands on the back of your head and move your head towards the ceiling. You also want to try doing cardio along with that. Such as, biking, running, and swimming.
  2. Dress Nicely Feel good in your own skin. Most girls like American Eagle, Aeropostale, South Pole Polo, Ect. Wear baggy or normal jeans or cargo kackis. Nike or Converse are excellent brand names. Most girls will like it if you wear good quality clothes! That doesn't mean buy really expencive clothes, just take into account the feel of your clothes, becuase when you break the touch barrier girls like things that feel nice!3
  3. Have Good Hygiene Take a shower and use deodorant, a touch of cologne, a toothbrush (to brush your teeth),and other hygiene-related items.

Inside

  1. Learn to Talk Just relax. If your super-shy,hang around guys that hang around girls and every now and then make a comment. Eventually, you'll be confident enough to talk to them all by yourself.2
  2. Be Nice Always treat girls with the utmost respect, and never make fun of them, but always tease them just as when you were kids at playaround3
  3. Have Fun Be a fun person. Girls love it. Make people laugh.4
  4. Think That Your 'IT'It doesn't always have to do with looks,but what you think of yourself.Change your mentality,if you think your attractive you will definately be attractive.
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How To Kiss your Girlfriend

Steps and tips to follow To Kiss your Girlfriend First Time When she is not ready for such love
How To Kiss your Girlfriend First Time When she is not ready for such love

  1. Steps

    I'm going to be talking to you about how to kiss your girlfriends. First of all, congratulations, you've got a girlfriend and that's a great thing to have, because it shows someone finds you attractive, someone loves your company, someone wants to spend time with you. But first of all, before you get into any of that heavy kissing, make sure your lips are really kissable.

    Now, by that, I mean, make sure you haven't got chapped lips, make sure they're not dry or flaky, or nasty. Girls really notice the small touches about a man. What their nails are like.

    What their hands are like. What their hair is like. What they smell like.

    Their skin, their lips, these small touches might sound sissy and ridiculous to you, but all girls worry about those features because they worry about these features themselves. They look at you and think, what are his lips like? Would I want to kiss those lips? Invest in a little lip salve or some Vaseline, or something if your lips are dry. Make them kissable.

    Make her look at your lips and think, “I can't wait to get a hold of those”. The big thing about kissing and sexual attraction, in general, is body language. When you really want to kiss her, match her stance.

    Mirror how she stands. If she leans in, you lean in. Point your body to match the way her body points.

    Make sure that your bodies match together. Therefore, don't stand with your arms folded. Don't stand all hunched up or look away.

    Keep eye contact with her, and let her know you're attracted to her by the way you stand. Be a man. Take the lead.

    Every girl, regardless of what she says, would love that Hollywood movie kiss, where the guy holds her in his arms and gives her a big kiss. Take the lead. Now, that might be terrifying to suddenly just go, “I'm going to grab her and kiss her”.

    Don't think about it like that. Because even though you're going to be confident and direct, you're going to feel your way in. When you're sat down, or when you're stood up, initiate body contact.

    If you're sat down together, put your hand on her wrist gently and softly. Maybe make a running motion along her forearm. If you're stood up together, put your arm on her shoulder or your hand on the side of her arms or even on the side of her face.

    Let her know that you want to touch her and you want to initiate contact. Next, the big thing with kissing is to relax. It's all about taking your time and softness.

    Relax all your facial muscles, you shouldn't be tense. You're not going to be doing anything that's going to be uncomfortable. You're going to really enjoy it.

    Once you relax your face, keep your lips really soft. When you lean in, take your time and be really slow. Now, we talked about that Hollywood kiss.

    Now, even in the big shows, they take their time with the kiss. It might look like they're grabbing each other, and they're kissing, and they're sucking face straight away. We don't have to do that.

    You're going to take your time and feel your way in. Once you've connected with your lips, your lips are together, just make gentle kissing motions. Hold the side of her face.

    When you kiss someone passionately, you don't necessarily kiss with your jaw. You're not making a biting motion. It's all about the soft muscles in your face.

    Keep your face relaxed, and you'll enjoy the kiss. A lot of guys worry what's going to happen with the tongue. We all hear when we do a passionate kiss or a French kiss for the first time, we've got to use our tongue.

    I mean, what the hell goes on in there? What you're going to do, because you're taking your time and you're going to enjoy your kiss, you don't ram your tongue into somebody's mouth. You just probe lightly. Feel the way into her mouth with the tip of your tongue, and if she responds, push your tongue in a little bit further.

    It should feel nice, it should feel gentle. It should feel intimate. You're not trying to cram your tongue into her throat.

    You're not licking an ice cream. You're just tasting. You're just probing with the very tip of your tongue.

    A kiss is only partially what you do with your lips. What you do with your hands is also important. When you're kissing her, keep your hands loosely around her waist or around her shoulders.

    Maybe, with one hand, touch the side of her face. Maybe move her hair out of the side of her face and away from your kiss. It feels really nice when you're kissing someone to gently touch the side of their face.

    Do it really lightly. It can tickle, and it can feel really intimate. If you're not comfortable doing that, just keep your hands lightly on her lower arm, or on the top of her arm, or around her waist, or around her shoulders.

    Thanks for listening. That was a few points on how to kiss your girlfriend. Have fun kissing.

    |In this video, Andy Jones teaches you how to kiss your girlfriend. He explains what to do about your lips, what to do with your body and what to do with your hands. From first timers to old pros, this video will have some advice for everyone.
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How To Kiss a Girl for The First Time

Tips and Steps To Follow To Kiss a Girl For First Time
How To Kiss a Girl for The First Time
Don't let nerves ruin your first kiss. Follow this guide to the perfect kiss, and kiss for the first time the way you always imagined.
  1. Step 1: Imagine

    Don't worry. We've all got an in-built ability to kiss -
    even primates do it. So it's a natural phenomenon,
    a bit like breathing, that is difficult to get wrong, and takes a surprisingly little amount of thought.

    Evolution and Mother Nature are on your side - a powerful combination, when all that's going against you are a few nerves, and maybe bad breath.
    Get yourself in the right frame of mind. Instead of dwelling on potential problems, imagine everything going really well. And when the big moment arrives your positive thinking will take over.
  2. Step 2: Make it happen

    Shyness is a natural part of your first kiss, and this will only be made more embarrassing by having an audience. Do what you can to escape sniggering friends and find some privacy.
    If you're so shy you find it difficult to even be near the person you secretly like,
    think of various kissing related games, such as 'spin the bottle' - where you spin a bottle on the ground, and whoever it points at, you must kiss. Or play Sardines, which doesn't involve kissing, but gives you the chance to seek out the person you want to kiss and hide with them.
    If it's December, use Christmas to your advantage and grab some mistletoe.
  3. Step 3: The signs

    Try not to worry about rejection, because by looking for certain signs, you can decipher the other person's feelings.
    If they're gazing into your eyes and smiling, there's a good chance they'll be receptive to a kiss.
    Teasing, making jokes, and giving you a lot of attention are also good signs.
    If you want someone to kiss you, give them a clue by flirting and getting close physically. Find an excuse to touch them. If they're still reticent, simply tell them you want to kiss them. Even if they're not interested, they'll be flattered, and it's very unlikely they'll run away screaming.
  4. Step 4: If things go wrong

    So your confidence hasn't failed you, but what if your technique does? Well hopefully it won't if you've watched VideoJug's 'How to Kiss Someone Passionately'. But as it's your first time, things may not go exactly according to plan. So you might find you end up banging teeth, or getting a bit too sloppy
    If any of this happens, just laugh it off... and if the other person is cruel about it, they're probably not worth kissing anyway.

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Thursday, May 26, 2011

How to Stay Positive when You Know Your Life Sucks

Steps , Warnings and Steps to Be Positive Thinker In Troubles Of Life
How to Stay Positive when You Know Your Life Sucks
Steps
  1. Ground Yourself. The most common reason why people think their lives suck is that they aren't living their own lives. Look deeply into whether you are acting to please others - to please family, friends, and society. Realize that you need to get to know who you are and what your needs are, and make the choices to follow your own path. To know these things, a path of meditation and inner exploration is invaluable.
  2. Look on the inside. What are some qualities you have that you like about yourself? Are you funny? Are you intelligent? Are you sincere? Are you generous? What do you have pride in? Try focusing on the positive things in your life. You may be having a positive influence on others even when you think you're useless.
  3. Prove those negative thoughts wrong. When you find yourself in a bad mood, you could think of the negative things such as, "I'm dumb and annoying", "I'm better off dead", "I'm ugly, I wish I looked different", etc. Even though it's not true. Change your mind. Look for your good features, think about the ones that you know love you, look on your greater side. Realize that nobody's life is easy and that there will always be ups and downs, and moments of low self esteem. Don't automatically assume that nobody cares. Every person matters to someone. You're alive for a reason.
  4. Appreciate what you see. Look in the mirror. Find some beautiful things about yourself.... Do you have nice skin? nice nails? beautiful eyes? full lips? Find stuff that appeals to you. When you can't change something, change your attitude towards it!
  5. It's all how you look at it. Jealous of the people with 'amazing' lives? They chose to be that way! Remember, there are people living in mansions who are miserable and people living on the street who are perfectly happy. It's all on how you look at it.
  6. Determine how your life could be better. What can you do to make your life better? What do you desire to do? How do you want to feel? Make a few reachable goals and your own strategies. The first step is usually the hardest - getting help or admitting you need it.
  7. Sometimes it's just luck. A lot of things in life are just luck. Where you were born, whether you had a kind loving family or an abusive one where your mind or even your life is in danger, whether you belong in your community or were born into an out-group by religion, race, etc., whether your family was rich or poor are all random things. It's what you do with it that matters. Remember that there is something epic and heroic in rising from harsh circumstances to do something well. Just surviving a rough situation and coming out of it with a heart is a triumph, a story that could move people long after you lived. That matters.
  • Sometimes situations that look good from the outside, like a wealthy but emotionally abusive family can inspire both misery and jealousy from others. Accept that's the situation. Remember that your life is your own and its direction is your choice. You don't have to be who other people tell you that you are, whether that's Future Criminals of America or Ruthless Cut-Throat Capitalist. You can change your life by choosing the direction that matters to you and pursuing it one small step at a time.
  1. Get motivated. What motivates you? What gives you energy to go on everyday? Music? Love? Family? A 1km run? God/Allah? Your attitude? Your pet? Friends? School? Give yourself a boost by focusing on what is important to you personally.
  2. Remember that some things can pass with time. There will be a tomorrow. There will be a next week. There will be a next month and perhaps by then, things will have changed for the better. If you are underage in a bad situation you have a definite release date after which your life is your own, all the things you could do to better it will come into reach even if they're difficult.
  3. Reminisce. Whenever you feel like the future is 'hopeless', think about happy memories. It will help make you feel better and remind you that in the future, there will be good things, too. Think about all the good things you've experienced, felt, and achieved, and consider how many more good things could be waiting ahead. There will be many great moments in your life - don't let a few obstacles get in the way. If you don't have any happy memories, this is relative - don't judge them by things other people think of as "happy memories." Think of the moments it wasn't as bad, even if those were only in solitude.
  4. Don't stop yourself from feeling the joy. It's okay to step back once in awhile and just enjoy the moment. Even in tough situations - it's important to smile and laugh here and there. Don't restrict yourself from doing things you love because they're "not important" or because you think you'll be criticized for doing them. Let yourself enjoy life even if you're not at the best place you could be. You only live once - make the best of it.
  5. Develop a gratitude journal. It's pretty simple. At the end of every day, write down five things that have made you happy or appreciative that day -- not necessarily big things, even small ones count. For example: nice weather, being praised by my boss for getting an urgent errand done, my playful dog, kids and hubby kissing me goodbye before they went to school/work, a hilarious joke a mate shared, etc.
  6. If you feel persistently sad, unmotivated, anxious, hopeless or fearful, seek professional help. You may be suffering from a mood disorder or nutritional deficit which could be contributing to your situation. Chronic physical pain can cause these symptoms too, if an aspirin lifts your mood then go to a pain clinic. Remember there is always somebody there who wants to help you. You are valuable!
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Tips

  • To "go for it," simply get up and do it. There is a small voice inside saying "Get up!", and you need to do what it says; just dive in! Turn off the computer, turn off the TV, and get going!
  • When you think positively, your whole views change about the world and you tend to look on the better, clearer side. It may sound stupid but being resentful is what really renders positive thinking useless. When you let down your walls (or hold out until they collapse...) really trying to "focus on the positives."
  • Thinking positively means hanging on to hope and looking for new possibilities at the time when life's gotten too hard. It means striving against its challenges, however extreme. It means hanging on to what is good in yourself if everything else gets swept away and valuing your compassion, your warmth, your capacity to find beauty. There is always the sky, there is always a dewdrop on a weed.
  • If the above fails for you, take the Buddhist view: Life is difficult. The fallacious thought is that we can change that. In accepting that life indeed is difficult, we begin to make it less painful...not less difficult. Accept that life is full of difficulty and choose the religion, belief system, or substance to ingest to decrease the pain; that is after all what the rest of us do. Life can suck, deal with it.

Warnings

  • Don't make the mistake of standing still rather than giving it a try.
  • Don't get lost in self-pity. Remember you have the ability to change your outlook and your situation. If you can't change your situation, you can always turn inward and decide how you'll respond to it. Sometimes innocent people are jailed for crimes they never committed. Sometimes people are crushed by discrimination and oppression, or robbed, or raped, or face job loss and fall through the cracks. You can't be who you were before tragedy, but you can become whole again as someone who survived tragedy and you can be remembered as someone who survived injustice without letting it poison you.
  • Let yourself grieve real loss. Accept the five stages of grief and let them flow, cry, rage, journal, bargain with the divine, it's a process that takes as long as it does for anyone who grieves. Don't let someone tell you it's just self pity, accept that it's grief and feel your feelings. Losing a friend, a pet, a job, an opportunity or facing a hard truth is real grief. Losing your idea of who you were to a painful self recognition is grief too, all those possibilities are gone and you can't see the new possibilities until you've grieved them and let go of the old.
  • Resist the urge to act out moods on those around you. Instead, write, confide in a friend, draw, take a walk, etc. Do something creative or physically active, something you feel comfortable doing and that others don't have the right to criticize.
  • Consult someone if you start having suicidal thoughts. Don't keep it inside.
  • If taking an aspirin or acetaminophen relieves suicidal thoughts and pushes you away from the brink, you are facing chronic physical pain instead of or in addition to depression even if you can't recognize it as such. Seek a pain clinic and an accurate diagnosis for the cause of your pain. You are much better off with a prescription if you need maintenance pain medication, a longterm prescription is likely to be safer and more effective. Migraines, fibromyalgia flares, many medical conditions can be easily mistaken for depression because depression is more common and well known. Specialists interpret symptoms within their own specialty. Sleep apnea and other types of sleep problems can also have this as a symptom. Become aware of your physical health issues and find the right doctors to get effective treatment for them. It can make a world of difference, especially if therapy and antidepressants have no effect but an over the counter pain medication reduces the problem.
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How to become a Positive Thinker?

Tips to Become a Positive Thinker  to succeed In Life
How to become a Positive Thinker

The best and quickest way to improve your life is simple: just think more positively. You've probably heard this many times before. And you're probably thinking, "That's a great idea, but in the real world it's much easier said than done." That's true; like a lot of things in life, becoming a "positive" person is an idea that is simple but not necessarily easy. The goal of this brief article is to give you a few simple and practical techniques that will help you make positive thinking an automatic and permanent part of your life.
Your thought patterns have a huge influence over every aspect of your life. Your thoughts determine your personality, the quality of your relationships, your financial success, your physical health, and much more. You probably have an idea of the power of your thoughts. The fact that you're reading this indicates you know it's important. But if you're like most people, you still grossly underestimate the powerful physiological effects your thoughts can have. For example, by simply thinking of biting into a juicy, yellow lemon you can make your mouth water. That's just a small example of how a thought can create chemical changes in the body.
The fact is that your thoughts greatly influence much more important things than saliva production. Science has shown that positive thoughts increase your white blood cell count which helps you fight infection and disease. In a study recently published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, researchers at the University of Wisconsin proved that people who practice positive thinking are better equipped to fight disease. In the study, a team of neuroscientists used electroencephalography to measure brain activity and then gave all the subjects flu shots. What they found is that positive thinking individuals had a significantly stronger immune response than those who exhibited more negative thought patterns. The bottom line: positive thinking can make you not only happier but healthier as well.
If you currently have habitual negative thought patterns - and most everyone does - you can learn to eliminate them and replace them with positive thought habits. But it won't happen on its own. You have to make a conscious decision to make a change. Once you do that - and with the help of a few simple techniques - it's actually pretty easy to become totally positive. Here are a few simple techniques you can start using right now:
  • Smile and Let the Tail Wag the Dog
    Being happy can make you smile. But does it also work the other way? Can smiling make you happy? Researchers at the University of California at San Francisco have discovered that mimicking the facial expressions associated with such emotions as happiness, sadness, and anger can trigger some of the same physical changes produced by actually feeling these emotions. By measuring an array of biometrics - such as heart rate, body temperature, and the electrical resistance of the skin - they demonstrated that simply smiling made the body "happy." Apparently moving facial muscles sends signals to the autonomic nervous system, which controls certain muscle and gland activity. This, in turn, spurs the physical reactions. So, smile and you'll be happy!
  • Create a Triggering mechanism for Yourself
    Now try your own smiling experiment. Put a big smile on your face right now. You may have to force it at first but do it anyway and see what happens. It's okay if you feel silly. Let the silliness make you smile even more. As you smile, think of anytime in the past when you felt very happy, joyful and positive. We've all had experiences in our lives when we have felt very positive. Let yourself replay some of those positive moments right now. Let yourself relive feelings of being positive and confident. Continue to smile. Release all cares and concerns and with a big smile on your face, feel yourself becoming more and more positive and carefree.
    As your positive feelings continue to build, press the thumb and middle finger of either hand together gently but firmly, and say to yourself "I am positive!" Again, while you're feeling very positive, press your thumb and middle finger together and say "I am positive!"
    You have just programmed yourself with a mechanism that you can use to trigger these same positive thoughts and feeling anytime you choose. Practice this frequently and soon you'll notice that you can have a positive attitude in any situation merely by pressing your thumb and middle finger together and saying "I am positive!"
  • Choose Your Words Carefully
    What you say and the words you choose are very important to maintaining a positive perspective and eliciting positive outcomes. For example, consider the word "don't". If you call out to a child "Don't slam the door!" what's the next sound we usually hear? Bam!! That's right, the door slamming. It's as if the child didn't hear the "don't." Only the positive part of the statement got through: "Slam the door!" However, if you say "Close the door softly," the child will be much more likely to comply. Another dangerous word is "can't." People often say I can't lose weight, or I can't quit smoking, or I can't remember names. The more they say that, the more it becomes reality. From now on, let the use of that word be like a red light flashing as a warning that this is negative programming that can create false limitations. Don't let this word rob you of your true potential.
  • Eject Negative Self-Talk
    More important than the words you say to others are the words you say to yourself. We all have an inner voice that reflects our subconscious thinking. Unfortunately, a lot of our self-talk is negative. For example: "I'll never be able to do it", or "I'll never understand it", or "I'm not smart enough", or "If something can go wrong, it will". To eliminate negative self-talk you must first become aware of it. What are the things that you say to yourself that limit your potential? The moment you become aware of the negativity eject it! You can eject it just as easily as you can eject a tape from a tape deck.
    To make that ejection more vivid, you can press your index finger against your thumb, or against a table or a dashboard, as if you're pressing a button, and at the same time emphatically say "EJECT!" Then immediately replace the negative with a positive such as "I can!" Over time, repeating this simple physical action will go a long way to helping you become totally positive.
  • Train Your Brain through Meditation
    Research has shown that meditation increases activity in the left prefrontal cortex; the same area of the brain that scientists associate with positive thinking. And people who meditate regularly are typically found to be more positive and healthier than the population in general. So learn how to meditate - and practice it often. You'll train your brain to use its positive thinking centers more readily and quickly become a more positive person.
  • Remind Yourself of What's Important
    A friend of ours who is a salesman and who's away from his home and family more than he'd like to be, told us about a tape he put together that never fails to lift his spirits. The tape consists of a series of messages from the most important people in his life: his wife, his father, his kids, and his closest friend. On his tape, each of these people says, in his or her own words, how important this man is to them. They say what they like, admire, and respect about him. They say how much they appreciate him, love him, and miss him when he's away. He says that after a tough sales call, or anytime he needs a lift, he plays that tape and instantly he feels very fortunate, very happy, and has greater sense of self-worth. It puts everything back in its proper perspective, and gives him renewed strength and a very positive attitude. Perhaps you could benefit from creating a similar tape of your own.
  • Wash Away Negativity with a Powerful Visualization
    Another technique for feeling totally positive is called the funnel of energy. It's a simple visualization exercise that can take less than a minute, but it makes you feel great. Here's how you do it. Imagine there's a funnel of positive energy flowing in through the top of your head. This positive energy comes from the purist, highest, most divine source of energy in the universe. It makes you feel more alive, stronger, more aware and alert. The moment it enters your body you sense its positive, loving, healing effect. You feel it cleansing you of negativity. Washing away any past negative programming you have experienced. It's dissolving all the old fears, the old inhibitions, the old limitations. Feel this positive, loving, healing energy washing away all negative thoughts, images and feelings. Feel it releasing your inner strength. The energy continues to flow in, through your shoulders, arms and hands, your chest, your back, abdomen, hips, legs and feet, reaching every part of your body dissolving all negativity. It's converting your entire body to healthful positive energy. Imagine all the negativity flowing out of your hands and feet leaving your body filled with only the purest positive energy. If feels so good to free yourself from negativity, it feels so good to be totally positive.
    Practice this visualization any time you'd like. Allow the visualization to last as long as you need to feel revived and purged of all negativity. It's great any time you need a lift.
  • Welcome Life's Obstacles - Adversity is Opportunity
    Life throws each of us a lot of curves. No one goes through life without problems, or without running into obstacles. And some of these problems or obstacles can be huge. But what's really important is how we face these obstacles. If we think negatively, we can be overwhelmed, give up or become ineffective in dealing with them. But there is a much better way to handle them. We can choose to look for something positive in the situation. We can choose to consider it a blessing in disguise - even if we have no idea what that blessing might be. We can look for an advantage or opportunity in any situation. As Richard Bach points out in his book Illusions, "There is no such thing as a problem without a gift in its hands." And the Chinese word for crisis is written with two characters. One of them means opportunity.
    Many of our students have become so positive that when an unexpected problem arises they automatically say "Oh good!" They then immediately start looking for the opportunity presented by the situation. And they inevitably find it. This can work for you, too. Learning to deal successfully with obstacles can help you live a more fulfilling life. As Booker T. Washington said, "Success is to be measured not so much by the positions that we have reached in life, as by the obstacles which we have overcome while trying to succeed."
  • Don't Worry - Be Happy
    In order to be totally positive, we need to know how to deal with worry. Every thought we have affects us physically as well as mentally, and worry can be very harmful. Dr. Charles Mayo said; "Worry affects circulation, the heart, the glands, the whole nervous system, and profoundly affects the health." Think about the process you go through when you worry. In your mind you picture a negative end result. It takes no effort or willpower; you just dwell on it. And in a short time this negative end result appears very real to you and you generate the same emotions that you'd experience if it really happened. You experience the same fear, anxiety, or discouragement. Consequently, you end up feeling bad right now for something that is merely a thought in your mind. At the same time you are setting up patterns in your mind for future negative experiences. The more you worry, the more you train your mind to expect bad things. Even if your "problem" never manifests itself, the worry takes its toll through immediate discomfort and the harmful effects of excessive stress.
    It's said that worry is interest paid in advance on a debt you may never owe. And Mark Twain put it this way; "I've had a lot of troubles in my day - most of which never happened." So, most worry is useless. You're better off ejecting it.
    But you can take the same process you use to worry, change just one thing, and it can help you immensely. Instead of imagining a negative end result, imagine a positive one! This, too, takes very little effort or willpower. Just dwell on that positive end result and in no time at all you'll be generating the emotions that are associated with that experience. You'll feel great immediately as a result of something that is merely a thought in your mind. You'll feel joy, happiness, and self-confidence. Plus, you'll be setting up patterns in your mind for future positive experiences. So make the worry process work for you rather than against you. Get into the habit of expecting good things.
There are many other things you can do to become more positive, but this handful of ideas is a great start. Begin today and you'll soon realize what a tremendous impact they'll have on your life.
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Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Tips and Tricks To make your iPhone Battery last longer

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iPhone  Battery last longer

Four Ways to Make Your i Phone Mobile Battery Last Longer

A good friend of mine had been complaining that her iPhone 3GS battery was holding less and less of a charge. When we got together at 5 p.m. one recent day, it was at 5 percent full - and it had been fully charged that morning. She had barely used it all day. The phone was apparently running itself dry simply by being turned on.
The single biggest battery consumer is the screen brightness. But it wasn't especially bright on this phone.
So I suggested that she take the phone to an Apple store to get the $60 battery replacement service. In fact, there was an Apple store only two blocks away, so I accompanied her - and found out, upon arrival, that there is no $60 battery replacement service! There's one for iPods, but apparently not for the iPhone.
There are plenty of do-it-yourself and third-party battery-replacement services that advertise online, but the Apple store Genius, named Nicole, said none of that would be necessary. She tested the battery and found that it was perfectly fine!
Instead, Nicole pointed out a few things that were contributing to my friend's rapid battery depletion. I took notes and thought I'd pass them along.
* Push e-mail. This, I believe, was the big one. My friend has seven e-mail accounts, and her phone was checking each of them every 15 minutes. If you turn off the "Push" feature, and set it to Manually instead (in Settings->Mail, Contacts, Calendars->Fetch New Data), then your iPhone checks for e-mail only when you actually open the e-mail app. Your battery goes a lot farther.
(If you have a corporate Exchange account, your calendar and address-book data will similarly be updated only when you open those apps.)
* GPS checks. In Settings ->General->Location Services, you'll see a list of all the apps on your phone that are using your phone's location feature to know where you are. (It's a combination of GPS, cell-tower triangulation and, on some phones, Wi-Fi hotspot triangulation.) All of that checking uses battery power, too. My friend had dozens of apps with Location Services turned on, many of which didn't really need to be on. She turned most of them off.
* Notifications. Similarly, in Settings -> Notifications, you see a list of apps that are allowed to display pop-up notifications (those blue text bubbles that look like text messages). To do that, they have to monitor what's going on with your phone - and that takes juice. Turn off the ones you don't really need.
* Background apps. Nicole the Genius discovered that my friend had a huge number of apps open - maybe 40 of them. She maintained that they were using battery power, too, in the background.
Now, I kept my mouth shut. But I'd been led to believe that background apps are generally frozen into suspended animation precisely so that they don't use battery power. In fact, Apple was criticized when it introduced "multitasking" in the latest iPhone software, precisely because apps don't actually keep operating in the background. Only a few sanctioned features keep running in the background (Internet radio playback and GPS tracking, for example).
Even so, Nicole quit all 40 of the apps that were still open. (To do that, double-press the Home button to open the multitasking app switcher. Hold your finger down on any icon until they all start wiggling. Tap the little X close boxes to manually quit open apps.)
Did the Nicole treatment work? Very well indeed. The next day, my friend's battery, by the same time of day (5 p.m.), was still at 80 percent!
So there you go: How to make your iPhone battery last a lot longer. For free. You're welcome.
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Friday, April 29, 2011

Tips To Choose Birth day Gift For Girlfriend which she would really like

 Best tips to Choose Beautiful Gifts For Your Girl Friend On Her Birth Day when you don't know about her choice
Birth day Gift For Girlfriend
Knowing how to choose birthday gift for girlfriend could be a nerve wrecking experience as women is specific about stuff they want. The last thing you need to do is buy a random gift at the last minute and find a big frown placed on her face because you fail giving her a nice gift. Do you want to make her happy? Follow these steps on different ideas for a nice birthday gift for your girl
  1. Observe her. A great way to choose birthday gift for girlfriend is to listen to what she wants or says. Has she has been eyeing a beautiful sweater or coat for months or talking about a TV show she always watching? When you pay attention to what she wants, it can make a for a great birthday gift that will please her.
  2. Notice her hobbies. You can find a birthday gift for your girlfriend noticing what she enjoys. She could be a bookworm, so buying a book is a perfect gift or she if is into makeup, a makeup kit is a nice birthday present too. When you recognize what she likes to do, you will find it easier to purchase a birthday gift.
  3. Clothes. Most women love shopping and filling their closets full of clothing and shoes. Whenever you go shopping, look at the outfits she's eyeing and if she did not buy it, make a trip alone and pick it up as a gift. An optional birthday gift is taking her to a shopping mall so you can buy whatever she likes, including shoes and accessories too.
  4. Perfume. Women love smelling good for their men so buying fragrance is an excellent choice as a birthday gift. In addition, you can benefit from her smelling sweet every time you are together.
  5. Create a gift basket. Get creative and make a personalized beauty gift basket. Include handy things she likes-- perfume bottle, lotion, and jewelry and maybe a nice picture of you two together. Your girlfriend will be extremely appreciative because you took the time to make a gift basket, and you score major points for thoughtfulness.
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Friday, April 22, 2011

How to Tell a Girl You Love Her when You Are Not Sure She Loves You Back

How to get a girl with which you love


 If you like a girl and she dislike you then follow these steps and tips to win this girl
When you love a girl, sometimes it is best just to tell her, even if you are not sure if the feeling is mutual.its best if you do and not hold back for too long or she just might start thinking differently about your feelings toward her.

Steps

  1. Know that even if she doesn't love you, it is a relief to get this off your chest.
  2. Don't make a big production of it. Just give it to her straight. Acting like
  3. Don't be a prick/a drama king/queen could make her reject you. Don't get angry with her if she says no.
  4. Remember, loving someone is not something people plan or do on purpose. Strong feelings like love arise from emotional stimulation, not choice.
  5. Go easy on her, since telling her that you love her might be a bit overwhelming for her, and she may need a minute or two to think about it.
  6. Wait for the right moment. Don't tell her you love her when either one of you is amongst friends. Wait until you are alone. But when you are, don't wait to tell her.
  7. Respect her reaction. If she doesn't love you back, your life isn't over; it may hurt, but that's how she feels.
  8. Make sure that you are sure you are ready for the emotional roller coaster of love. There are highs and there are lows; if you are just thinking of saying it to get laid, DON'T. If you really love someone, you will respect them, care for them, and be there for the good and the bad. Are you ready for that?
  9. "I love you" is a statement, not a question. Don't expect an answer, because it doesn't 

Tips

  • Look nice and be sure to shower. This might just give that extra bit that was needed.
  • Be confident! Look her in the eye, stand tall, and smile. Most importantly, speak without hesitation, particularly if you act shy on a normal basis. You must demonstrate that you believe the words coming out of your mouth and can back them up with the strength of your devotion.
  • Don't tell everybody you know you love her before you tell her. It is not a good thing if she finds out on her own.
  • Love can be a tricky thing. She might change her mind after she gave you an answer. Don't stalk her to see if she has changed her mind yet.
  • If you have been her friend for a long time and now you want to be more, then she probably does not see you in that light. In this case, you must "change yourself" in the sense that you have to portray yourself as someone she can love and be attracted to, instead of just someone who enjoys spending time with. This change needs to be something positive for yourself and illustrate your good qualities. For example, start going to the gym: you get in shape, and suddenly, she starts seeing that well-toned man of her dreams with that personality she has loved all along.
  • Make sure you have an answer prepared for any possible reaction.
  • If she rejects you, ask if she wants to be/stay friends; letting her know you care about her might help change her mind eventually.
  • Consider not saying anything at all. No one likes needy people. If she loves you and tells you so, you're all set. If she doesn't, either she's not ready to tell you anyways, or she just doesn't feel that way about you.
  • Be yourself. If she rejects you, don't get angry.

Warnings

  • No means no. If she turns you down, remember that there are other people out there.
  • She might say that she loves you back; be prepared for that. If she does, its most likely not okay to say every single feeling you have for her right away, express it over time and she will most likely realize how important you are to her If she is a friend, do not let that rejection change your friendship with her. Telling her that you love her should be to gain the closer relationship you want with her, not to weaken the one you already had.
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Easy but Important Tips to protect your car from theft or stolen

15 ways to protect your car from theft

Always lock you car: approximately 50% of all vehicles stolen were left unlocked! (©iStockphoto.com/Nikolai Okhitin)
lock you car to protect from theft: 50%vehicles stolen were left unlocked
If car theft were a legitimate business measured by stock analyst firms, it would instantly become a Fortune 500 company. There's a lot of theft going on and, despite the fact that thieves aren't the most reliable guys on the planet, auto theft is well organized. These days discriminating thieves don't simply steal anything they can get their hands on. They're stealing for economic gain, so they pick and choose. If you own a vehicle that's popular with car buyers, odds are it will be popular with thieves too.
All this might sound a bit challenging. You certainly don't want your car to be stolen, so what can you as an individual do to protect yourself from the huge and ever-more-organized hazard that can strike at almost any time?
The happy news is that doing something meaningful is both possible and not all that difficult. Your basic goal is to make your vehicle a tough target, one that will encourage the thief to move on to the next car. Remember, the more time the thief is forced to take to steal a car, the more likely he is to get caught, so if you make grabbing your car hard for him, it will usually pay off. Here are some helpful suggestions to do just that:
1. Lock your car. Approximately 50 percent of all vehicles stolen were left unlocked.
2. Take your keys. Nearly 13 percent of all vehicles stolen had the keys in them.
3. Never hide a second set of keys in your car. It might seem like a good idea, but thieves know all the hiding places.
4. Park in well-lit areas. Over half of all vehicle thefts occur at night, and thieves don't like the spotlight.
5. Park in attended lots. Auto thieves don't like witnesses either.
6. When you park in an attended lot, leave only the ignition and door key. Don't give the attendant easy access to your glove box and trunk. (If you use the same key for your trunk and glove box as for the door, have one of them changed.) Upon returning, check the tires, spare and battery to ensure they are the same as those you had when you parked.
7. Never leave your car running unattended, not even if you'll only be gone for a minute. Vehicles are commonly stolen at convenience stores, gas stations and ATMs. Many vehicles are also stolen on cold mornings when the owner leaves the vehicle running to warm it up.
8. Completely close car windows when parked. Don't make it easier for the thief to enter your vehicle.
9. Don't leave valuables in plain view. Why make your car a more desirable target to thieves?
10. Park your vehicle with wheels turned toward the curb. Many car thieves use tow trucks to steal vehicles, so make your car tough to tow away. Wheels should also be turned to the side in driveways and parking lots so the vehicle can only be towed from the front.
11. If your vehicle is rear-wheel drive, back into your driveway. Rear wheels lock on four-wheel drive vehicles, making them difficult to tow. Front-wheel drive vehicles should be parked front-end first.
12. Always use your emergency brake when parked. In addition to ensuring safety, using the emergency brake makes your car harder to tow.
13. If you have a garage, use it. Parking your vehicle inside protects it from thieves as well as from Mother Nature.
14. When parking in a garage, lock the garage as well as your vehicle door. By locking both the garage and vehicle doors, you greatly improve the chances of deterring a thief.
15. Never leave the registration or title in your car. A car thief will use these to sell your stolen car. File the title at your home or office and carry your registration in your purse or wallet.
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